Tuesday, November 13, 2012

ditch the dead weight

I think we could all do away with things that are weighing us down. people, thoughts, unobtainable goals/wants.

Like most, I have a difficult time "letting go" of these things. Often I convince myself I will "get around to it" when it comes to a task. In reality I know I'll never do it, & I'll be irtitated that I haven't, it would be better do just let it be and move on. Uhhhh, to easy.
Let the past be the past is another thing I haven't quite mastered, I blame the whole female thing for that 99% of  the time. We're born knowing how to hold a grudge ;) . I talk about how I feel, I have to. When I don't it builds until I explode, which usually leads to my having to aplogize. Not for what I say, just how it comes out. Talking things out doesn't always wrap up the issue, ESPECIALLY if I feel like I didn't get the information I was looking for. & sometimes you never do.
I have high expectations for the people closest to me, when they aren't met I tend to react in a not so receptive way.
I don't expect perfect, but I expect honesty. Always. In the past people who haven't been honest have been left behind. So I can move forward lighter. I've obviously been doing the same thing, people that don't belong in my life or are not worth my time are gone :)  I'm lighter.

Everyone should ditch their dead weight.

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