I keep noticing that people have this amazing tendency to make the same stupid decisions over and over. Guilty. It's frustrating to observe. To see the amazing light at the end of someone's maze and then watch them walking in circles around a glow stick.
Relationships between people are complicated, we all feel things in our own way which makes it hard to share things. I totally understand why the human condition is "fragile". Not just because of sickness, accidents, and natural threats. I mean emotionally we are all glass. If you're not glass you're stone, and really, is that any better? No one can hurt you but no one can make you happy either. Some people are a mixture, it's weird. Because they put off this happy vibe, open even. Except when things get serious they shut down, get defensive and the broken pieces really show through. It's sad, but a hopeful sad.
That general behavior makes people want to fix each other. It's almost laugh worthy, the idea of fixing someone else. No one has forever, so why are we spending countless hours trying to "fix" someones life. If they do self destructive things, why don't we let them destroy themselves? Love. The core of all stupid repetitive decisons. Since the beginning of time human beings have been making their lives harder because they care. When we stop caring though, shit just gets unbalanced. Even if one person can't change another they still need to know someone wants them to. So they know someone cares. What the hell. Seriously. That's selfish.
Sometimes I wish people were simple, but then what would we do?
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